She now is so my favorite actress! All the shit she had to deal with, with her good for nothing lying cheating soon to be ex husband, all handled with grace. So here we are all thinking wow what crap that this all comes out during a huge highlight of her career, an Oscar win, and all the while a true joy had already entered her life and she managed to keep such a huge secret, the adoption of a baby boy not only during Oscar season but also during the scandal,  I mean really in this day and age of the media being everywhere it ‘s amazing she was able to pull this off!

Reading  her article in People Magazine I was amazed at her attitude about life, most folks in her situation would become bitter rude people and she sees this as an opportunity to learn from what happened and find a way to become a better person despite what happened. She also already is being a fantastic Mom in that she wanted to protect her son instead of using him as a tool to get more votes for an Oscar or sympathy from society while the Jesse thing was being uncovered. She instantly went into Mom mode realizing that the most important person during this chaos was her son, his safety, his security, his stability and making his surroundings positive.  The love and peace between her and her son that you see in the photos shows that the drama that is happening around her has not penetrated this world she  has built for them, such a gift was brought her way to bring life back into perspective, so happy for her…so Wonderful!